Sunday 3 November 2013

Be Kind

Periodically I need to have a little discussion with my kids about how they treat other people. This talk usually stems from one of them being rude or disrespectful to someone within the confines of our school.

So I decided to shape my latest lecture in the form of a self-learning exercise.

First, I asked them to tell me about all the things their parents teach them. There were no surprises in this segment of the discussion.
Then I asked the kids to tell me about the things I teach them.

The list consisted of the basics: English, stories, how to say things, new words, funny things, how to read, how to be crazy, ect. There were also comical additions like zhongzi, a tradition triangle sticky rice dumpling wrapped in bamboo and eaten during the Dragon Boat Festival, thrown in the mix.

Then I asked them what other things I taught them other than English. This took some thinking…

Evan raised his hand first. A million thoughts ran through my head trying to figure out what his witty answer would be. Here we go!
“Evan, what is something else I teach you that is not about English?”
With a slight smile on his face he replied,

“You teach us to be kind.”

I almost crumbled.
Here I thought for sure he was going to say “diarrhoea” … his word of the month.

Monday 22 April 2013

They Call Her Kitty, Kitty Kat


Over the past month, our apartment has had some new guests arriving intermittently. I don’t mind guests. Actually, I love it when people come over to visit, but it is in our apartment where these guests still remain. It’s not like I can just ask them to go. They are small and take up very little space. They don’t eat my food or snore like my mother. I think it’s their eyes that get me. Kind and soft.

After some self-coaxing, I have concluded it is time that I accept these free loaders as permanent fixtures in our apartment.  Although this is not saying much, they have now survived longer than any fish under my roommate’s care. Poor fishies. *sniffle

So the other day I am chilling on the couch doing things of such little importance I don’t remember what they were. Then entered Emily with something in her hand.  She approached the TV and began shuffling her collection of stamps around to make room for one more.  Now, these are not just any ordinary stamps. These are much more than the hand-carved wooden or granite ones you can get with your Chinese name on them. These are finely moulded plastic Hello Kitty stamps. I think the fact that ink is not included only adds to their value in Taiwan. It just leaves you with more options in the end.
No need to be underwhelmed. There are more.

Hello Kitty is a commodity in Taiwan, and it is often very expensive. But lucky for many people in Taiwan, 7-11 offered these stamps as their sticker collecting campaign last round. With purchases over a certain amount at 7-11 you get stickers to collect, and when you collect enough stickers, you can a free prize. Normally these prizes are tacky, so I give them to my kids in Teacher Teri’s Store. I am in no way implying that the Hello Kitty stamps are tacky, but I will say to this date I have zero in my possession.
The discussion between Emily and I included comments about how many there were, and the joy she felt when she finally had a complete set. I gathered it was equivalent to parents holding their newborn in their arms for the first time.

Then my inquisitive nature got the best of me. How did you get so many?

I got them through buying and trading.

AH WHAT? Buy them? You bought them? Really?

Well I had to buy them to get the complete set.  Aren’t they cute? You can’t look in the box at the ones they give you, so that’s why there are replicas. I had to get a complete set before any of my students did.  I needed a full set. Yes necessity.  I am taking them with me when I go home. Yeah you can buy them. Some were so difficult to find……

By this time my head is spinning. Am I hearing this correctly? I keep hearing so many unexpected sentences that I can’t seem to process them quickly enough or put them in the correct order any longer.

 Who could have foreseen this going beyond just one set? Maybe I should have looked closer at the signs? Asked more questions? Scheduled around the clock 7-11 watches? As I reflect on the last couple months, I have realized nothing I could have done would have curbed this obsession!  Alas, 18 Hello Kitties and counting. Nicely displaced on our TV and in front of the fish tank, which is strictly reserved for only the frog prince and some special princess kitty.
They give our fish friends word of encouragement. Just keep swimming... swimming...swimming.

It wasn’t all sunshine and rainbows for Emily through this long journey. Apparently her world almost came crashing down on her when her students got a complete set before she did. She doesn’t know what their tactics were, but all that mattered was at the end of the day she had her Hello Kitty stamping sets… again ink not included.

This is an ode that’s not an ode for my dear Emily. We have had a great year in Taiwan and have shared so much. Someone who I wish to never be far or forgotten. 

Friday 12 April 2013

AND DRUM ROLL PLEASE

My apologies for being MIA. It feels as though I just wrote a blog, but it turns out the last time that happened was six months ago! 

At the end of the month, I am moving into a new apartment. And as of tomorrow I have been here for one year. It is really difficult to believe that I have been gone for that long! 

I thought I would finally post a video of where I have been camping out for the last year. I know Jamie will approve of this place because of the sunlight and brightness. My bamboo grows like weeds here. My new place still has the same amount of sunshine only I am three floors higher, so I can get the best seats in the house for earthquakes.

Here is the link to the video!


XOXO